Originally Posted By: chl0901
It's very hard to deal with! When he is in a mood, I just let him be and try not to let it affect me anymore. In the past, I would badger and try to talk or reason with him but it would just make him more mad. Very difficult to live and deal with!


Yes! I'm definitely in the stage where I am overcompensating I feel. I'm constantly hugging him and kissing trying to improve his mood but it doesn't work. I don't think its making him more mad necessarily but its not helping either....

Chl0901, did you ever have the feeling he was gonna blame the mood issues on your marriage when its not always the issue?


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14