In fact, I'd go back and reread your old thread entirely. There's a lot of good advice, especially since it looks like many of the same issues are coming up again.
Originally Posted By: britt54
The reason I believe him and what he was doing is because we have two friends staying at our house right now until their new house is built and the one guy works with him and came home from work and told me H asked him to go workout with him after they get home but he said he was too tired. So I asked him if H was still gonna go alone and be said yes. There is no OW.
Maybe not, but there is definitely more to what he's going through than what he is telling you. And you can't be responsible for fixing things you don't know about.
If he wants to be a grumpy snarky ass, leave him alone. If he wants to act more like your husband, then treat him like it. You get a say in what your marriage is going to be like just as much as he does.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
