Cemar,

it seems that sex isn't really the issue for you...since if you withdraw love bank credits when w does have sex with you but isn't as into it as you would like.

so then what ways does w show you that she loves you, needs you, desires you, cares for you, wants you...etc...outside of the bedroom?

and keep in mind though I am a woman I am the hd partner and I'm not asking to be pissy I'm asking cause I do the same damn thing and don't want to.

LL