I am not sure there is a possibility for compromise. One wants sex every day, the other NEVER wants sex. So compromise means to meet in the middle, which would be sex every other day. NOT GONNA HAPPEN. There is no way in the world for a LD spouse to get to that level. If you get them to once a week, THAT WOULD BE MIRACULOUS. So let's say it's once a week, this will be a lot of hard work for the LD spouse, and for the HD spouse, this is BARELY tolerable. Can a LD spouse keep this up, DOUBTFUL!
Then the REALLY important part, it's all about DESIRE. Frequency is really not all that important. HD spouses want GREAT sex, which requires the FULL, DESIREABLE PARTICIPATION of the other spouse. Making love to a person that does not have their heart can actually be WORSE then no sex at all!! I actually make love bank withdrawls for this, even though the wife is ML to me. I could have a better time with a PAID professional, then to ML to a spouse that is "Doing Her Marital Duty".
