I agree I didn't do anything wrong. Our last interaction for the day was a good one and he can home miserable which couldn't have been anything to do with me. I guess I'm just more scared he is going to think whatever is bugging him is me even though it isn't. It's really hard to be around him when he is like this.
If he says nothing is wrong, or that you didn't do anything to cause his mood, take his word and move on. He notices your changes and that your upbeat, so continue to be that in front of him.
If it's hard to be around him when he's like that, after you've made sure all is well and shown him support, can you go out and GAL during those times? Or do something with the kids outside the home (ask him to join, if he doesn't o well).
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope