Thanks everyone!

Well, court went as it should have. She did not get what she wants and kids are 50/50 custody. She also has 40 days to disclose all financials which she was still not forthcoming with and still wanted to make a financial settlement without. She can't do it and has been told 40 days for all docs. She also has to reimburse me for BMW payments for 11 months. She also has to pay back my over contribution to post separation expenses. With all this she will probably owe me about $10-$15k when all equalization is done. I have to pay $420/month child support for now as I make more. This will likely decrease after 6 months.
Oh, and I got the dog. I did not hear her, but apparently she said "He can have the effen dog." Shows how much he would have been looked after.
She has been so nasty.
Our old house changes hands tomorrow and only a couple scraps of things to get tonight. She has been taking many things that are one and had to let it go. However, she has taken the expensive drapery which is supposed to be left there for the new owners as part of the sale. Somehow comforting to know her issues are not about me. She needs help.
Anyway, got the deal that should have been struck back last October. Cost us (kids future money) $60k to get there though. Still financial stuff to settle.

I got my girls though! Woo hoo!


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.