Hi just picked up on the start of your thread to read your sitch Mimi. Just by reading the start of it reminds me of my sitch. One thing I've not been doing is keeping up with my thread. I was expecting people to reply to it and that's why I never kept it up. My H told me he was filing, he delayed it once and I've not heard anything since. I know he is struggling financially so I really don't know how he can afford it.
I also wish I'd read more self help book whilst we were still together, but you don't realise things are out of control until it's too late. My H said we've been living as room mates as well. I like the line that someone put on here that said "he may be over forever now, but it might not be forever in two months time, lol. Right well, I'm going to start posting on my thread, speak to you soon smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!