Do you believe that sex too early will derail the process and definitely not help at all?
I feel that if I do withhold just to prove a point I will come across as petty. Sounds daft saying it but it does. It's like I'm lording control over her.
Putting sex aside for a second do you also think this applies to other things, like having dinner together, spending time talking?
I'd like to answer those questions, but I believe it's more important to hear what you think. You made a decision about financing the first session of MC. So, based on what you've learned from past experiences and what your main goal is today, how would you answer those question?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
