I see a counselor, and he has seen my 2 older kids once. One of the problems in my family is that we are grossly over-scheduled. My W self medicates with busyness.
Last night, I had planned on taking my Daughters to counseling, but it interfered with girl scouts and cheerleading practice. My W doesn't think anything is wrong and that counseling is a waste of time. We got into an argument, and the kids went to their activities and not counseling.
I need to make this a priority and be more assertive about what I think my kids need.
I have another session scheduled for next Tuesday.