Thanks for all the comments and support - even yours Mr BOND. I have been all over the place the last week.
My W finally got served. She didn't even mention it. I had to ask. Her reply was "I received some legal documents, but haven't had time to look at them". We are headed toward a potentially bitter D, neither of us know where we will be living next year, or how we are going to share parenting/custody of the kids. Our life is going to be completely torn down and rebuilt, and she acts like it is nothing.
My kids are really struggling. They feel unloved and are acting out. I am trying to be there for them, but I can't replace their Mom.
My W has 3 trips planned for this summer (5 weeks total). She is 100% dedicated to work from Jan - April, and is only home Sunday night. She works Mon-Thurs during the day. In the evenings, she works out Mon, Wed, and Friday and goes out Tue, Sat. When she is home, her nose is buried in her smart phone.
She is completely oblivious to the feelings of abandonment and anxiety that my kids are feeling. She isn't around enough to really notice. And when she is around, my kids are so excited to see her, that for a short time they seem OK.
D14 has discovered boys and is realizing her own sexuality. She wears grossly inappropriate clothes. My W has been leaving her home alone all day when she goes to work, or runs errands. If she is not left alone, she gets dropped off at a friends house that I don't approve of. In either case, she goes through her days completely unsupervised. I have to put a stop to this, but I am not sure how.
I have been trying to call her and facebook message her every day to let her know that she is loved and that I am thinking about her. But, this is a sorry substitute for having a real family.
