CeMar, I can't believe you just said that. Are you listening to yourself? My H is just like your W. He won't read the book and he controls the cold temperature of this marriage. If you read the book you know Michelle told us that the LD is the one that has the reins in this area. Trust me when I say that if he gave me the high sign I'd be on my knees doing my best to wake-up Jr. so he'd come out to play. To hell with pride. I can't clean enough, work hard enough, stay away from my family long enough to please this man and earn some sex and or affection. Hell, if I could some affection and flirting I'd stay around to see what else might develope.

I will tell you all this. This is the last year I stay faithful to a man that would rather jack-off to a picture than roll around on the bed with me.