Well, are you listening? Only you and her are gonna know that.
Second, you are probably trying to rationalize what she's thinking, when she doenst even know what shes thinking half the time. Put the facts out there when she asks, that's all you can do, you get in a dangerous place when you try to think what she's thinking, or justify it as just WAS/MLC talk.
Its best to try to not think about it one way or that other, just treat it as it is what it is.