She also acknowledged that it was not very kind to leave me stuck without a car and offered to bring me groceries/pharmacy stuff while I was looking for something, but she said we should have 2 cars and seemed to think demanding money for "a junker" to replace "her" car was acceptable.
Had to bite my tongue and let that slide, only because I agree that we should have 2 cars and have been looking for another one. I understand that she still feels the need to reply with a provocation or accusation - I thought we may have moved beyond that, but the financial discussion seems to have opened that up a bit again.