Great response to the text! He probably was trying to gauge your reaction....my H tries to push my buttons too
When he calls just be very calm, take silent deep breaths through the call if needed, and be positive -- just know YOU will feel so much better for doing so!
As for the MIL try not to read too much into it. When my H first left I tried to explain what I thought was happening, I did not accuse him of anything and was not mean. She accused me of getting pregnant on purpose, I was a bitch that's why he left, I wanted everyone in my family to be on pills (S18 has ADHD and is on meds) and it went on. She later apologized. I accepted. We have not talked since She believes what she needs and I'm doing it all while her son does whatever
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR