Yeah I debate that too forlovesake. Maybe I should do more of the moving on and making him wonder. But I know for me right now I wouldn't be able to handle it if he called my bluff. Because for me right now it would be a bluff. I have given myself a personal deadline of January 2014, only because I cannot live in limbo indefinitely and eventually it's best for all involved to move on. (besides theres' a one year waiting period for divorces to be finalized where I live so it gives us time to work on things still ...)
You may choose not to say anything, I just wouldn't agree with it if I were you. Not that it changes what he may do. You're also in a totally diff space than I am. EA is confirmed, right? And you guys actually filed S and you are waiting to be served with D papers. Maybe the vets can chime in here ... I don't want to mislead you.
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14
