right now your H wants to be a father more than a WAS but not enough to be a husband. Just let it go....like what u plan to say "no big deal". You've got much more important stuff to take care of than letting this incident gets to you
This is actually a perfect summary of my situation. And I know that I need to be happy that he at least is not walking out on us totally (even though he has emotionally left me/the marriage). Thanks for that perspective. Like I said earlier I may still get upset but I am learning to "act as if" and not let him see every mood change like I used to. I did start today with the sarcastic "thanks" but I quickly rebounded let it go, projected a PMA and we averted what normally would have been an argument about how he doesn't care about me/pregnancy. Thanks for your input, much appreciated.
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14
