I understand! I am having a down day too. Sometimes I wonder if my efforts are even worth it, but then I remember that even if my M doesn't work out, then at least I will know I will be okay in the end whatever the outcome. Just trying to continue to work on myself and remembering to BREATHE!
Yes this is so key! Remembering that this is for us and if they come back it will be icing on the cake. It can't really be the goal. I remember when this he walked away two years ago I didn't know about DB but he didn't come back until I literally let him go and moved on. I hope you can have a better day today and don't let him ruin your PMA. Did you read DB? I am starting to play a modified version of the prediction game and honestly it has been working. Not that it changed my H's mind or anything but that I've remained calm and avoided arguing with him. The times I feel down I call my mom or vent on here. It's working ... for me anyway. Thanks for commenting on my thread.
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14
