Mr.Bond, we did talk about that last time she did it. My question to him was what does she have to tell me this time? He should know why he thinks she is going to contact me again.

He was quick to say to me not to text her. This was when we were talking about working on our m. I told h that I don't do that. She does which was when he said he thought she may call again.

I'm sure ow doesn't realize h has issues and I think she is applying tons of pressure. He kept telling me she is not happy with him. Like I have said all along, I really don't care. In my eyes if you play with fire you're going to get burned. Playing with a married man with kids is asking for trouble and you deserve what you get.

It appears my h has been talking to his mom, and at least his best friend. Has anyone encountered their spouse starting to talk to others about their situation? I don't know if it because I have chosen not to accept this situation any longer? I do know that before, like several months ago he wasn't talking to anyone about it.

I'm not sure what this means.

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out