What you say is that he cannot tell you what you want and yes you refute it if that's not what you want. I did two years ago ... there was no way I was going to agree to see other people. Now that didnt change his mind or actions. So the result may not be what you want. I'm sorry you're going through this. It's incredibly painful and difficult. Try to stick to basic DB techniques. So in your case Id refute on your behalf but then you can't invalidate his feelings (for himself) or argue, beg, plead, cry etc. does that make sense?
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14
