Years ago, when were were in college and we had a fight and it seemed we might split up, my W threatened to kill herself because she had no family and would be alone.
After we almost split up last time, when we tried to go back to CO, we had a pretty big fight - the first one where stuff from BD #1 and PA #1 came up. I stormed off and went to a movie to cool down. She texted me threatening to kill herself, saying "I won't be a problem anymore" or something.
How come, she can be *that* distraught, when she's not in a secure position, but then turn around and have no problem telling me know that she can (almost) support herself, that she doesn't expect me to forgive her or be happy for her while she does something that tears my heart out. I know that's classic MLC/WAS behavior, but it's killing me because I wan't so bad to ask her that directly. I know I can't, from a DB perspective, but it's so freaking hard.
