So do I refute what he said then so that he can't justify his actions? Do I say that I do have hope for our marriage and remember the man he used to be? I don't want to give him any outs and a little accountability would be nice. At the same time, one of his biggest things has always been that he didn't feel like I truly loved or even liked him. I don't want to reinforce that by allowing him to think that I only want to stay together for D, or don't really want to make it work.
Me: 26 H: 28 T:8 M:5 D:2 BD:4/1/13 Separated 6/6/13 Filed separation 6/21/13 Waiting for D papers to be served, H says filed
