Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

[lost_hope]

I'm sorry you're going through this. His joke was insensitive for sure. He's threatening to leave you and your three kids. There's nothing to joke about there. But what I've learned is you have to not let him affect your PMA. You have to remain as cool as you possibly can with this. The good thing is that you have DB before. The bad thing is that he's done it before (so this may be a habit). I am kinda sorta in the same boat but it's my H that doesn't like sex or affection. Plus a whole lot of other issues ...