OK... If this is her truth... and you are assuming...
Originally Posted By: Positivespin
everything about me frustrates her right now.


Then I would think this would not be an option for her...

Originally Posted By: Positivespin
Now she says that if the house doesnt sell by oct she will have to move back in because she wont be able to afford her apartment. The thought of that is paralyzing me right now.


Does she WANT to come home? As strong as you've gotten (or are projecting with your perfection of AsIf!) ego and pride can make it difficult for WAS's to return. Excuses... well money is always a good one to get back in the home and save face while doing it.

Change the lense on your goggles in your interactions with her. Have you ever been driving someplace and drove right past it because you were thinking too much?

The question is... Spin, has YOUR intended destination changed on this journey? What do YOU want friend?

Me(F):40 WAW:44
T:13yrs M:9yrs
BD:2/12 (I saw a text)
ILYBINILWY: 5/12
PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11)
S:2/13
Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13
W moves home to R: 10/13