Oh, I respect he is seeing someone else and I know this is his journey. Doesn't mean I have to like it
I am actually not upset by it too much and the above post was a bit of a vent towards how H feels it hasn't been about him at all. While I can see how he feels that way (since he supports us etc. and we are all that stands in the way of his perceived financial and emotional freedom), it is a bit irksome because boy oh boy a bit of down time would be nice
Although my kids are old enough to be left on own if I go out, they are here 24/7. H visits, maybe, once every two weeks, but doesn't take them. Although he has offered to switch places, I posted before that his apt. is a bit of a trigger, so that's out lol.
I think he is waiting for me to finish school and get a job so he can have a bit more financial freedom (which I don't begrudge). But I also think that in his head, this is the next thing that will make him happy, just like leaving was supposed to. Or seeing someone else was supposed to..or....
