Do you know of any sitches out there with vanisher and no children? (there's absolutely no reason for interaction)
Check out Portia's threads.
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If he were that comfortable in his new stage of life he should have no problem contacting me and saying hi.
I have no contact w/my xh. In fact, he FB messaged me about 2 years ago w/a friend request. I wrote him that while I hoped all was well with him that I did not think a "friendship" with him was good for my M or my family. I don't think his disinterest in you necessarily reflects unhappiness. That may be harsh, but it seems at least a fair chance of truth.
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And as I was saying in the first post on the thread, I've been dating someone and things are advancing towards a relationship.
My H's OW is an old girlfriend "he never stopped loving".
Can't tell you the amount of pain this causes me, the damage done to our M of 21 years. May I just say, be damned certain you are done w/XH before progressing w/new R. And from what I've read on this thread, you are NOT done.
My tone here seems rather nasty to me. I apologize if it seems so to you too. Lengthy R talk w/my H last night. Foul mood for me this morning.
Take care 4leaf.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
