"I believe one of Sandi's rules is believe little to none of what your spouse says."

You have read DB or DR haven't you? The rule FROM THE BOOK is, "believe none of what they say and only half of what they do".

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER