I believe one of Sandi's rules is believe little to none of what your spouse says.So don't put your hope in what he says he will or won't do at this point. I know its hard to no longer be able to rest in the word of your spouse as you have for so many years....unfortunately they are no longer the people they once were. Our feelings our not their priority so we cant rest like we use to, we have to instead gaurd our hearts and minds... love them...but not let their actions hurt us.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
