wife hardends heart-2

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thanks Newman & Thumpered
OM is just this kid who fell in love with W after a few days meeting W. He's her client. That's how he related his story to me. He felt i haven't been treating her right and wanted to 'be there for her'. W told me of his 'pursuing' and did reject some of them. He's currently inviting W and the kids out whenever there's a chance. W is keeping him as 'close friend' status.

I not jealous of him. Well, i'm past jealous. Now i think he's just this puppy seeking attention albeit from other man's wife. He should know better than poking his nose on other people's lives. He doesn't know the whole story. Neither W and I are telling him. He thinks whenever W appears unhappy, its automatically my fault.

Thumpered. Not at all rude.
180s is pretty strange experience. I find it confusing. This out-of-character traits had me questioning its genuineness.
GAL is going pretty well but money is pretty tight these days. Planning a start-up though.
Detach? I know OM invites W and the kids out whenever i'm busy at work. Just last weekend, I'm away overseas and sure enough he invites himself. I know cause my kids tells me. ha! kids. They'll tell you everything. My response is not doing anything at all and acting as if. I just let it slide.

W is showing positive attitude towards me lately and i think she wants to talk to me. I don't know what's stopping her. She's giving this wide puppy eyes that shouts 'give me attention'. Not normal behavior.
I know i'm still early in my situation but i'm getting to that place where i'm no longer afraid of being alone. I'm fine. I'm closer to my kids now. They even initiate play-time with me with the TV switched off. I know i must have done something right. That's a good 180.