Originally Posted By: MrBond
You're focusing too much on the negatives. He has also said alot of positive things as well. You're letting the fear of what happened before, take over. You can't do that


It's incredibly hard....

Today was another puzzling day....he was in a great mood again. We woke up and cuddled and had sex. Very unlike me to do this at 10 am before he goes to work but he was so happy. We had lunch together and he thanked me and kind if brought up how he has noticed I have been trying and how I seem more happy. I agreed and told him I am in a good place. He agreed and thanked me for the morning. And said jokingly "guess I won't leave you now" I found it to be very insensitive and told him to take it back. He joked about it a bit. But I was speechless. Didn't know what to do or say. He left for work and text me a few times and all was good and fine. Then he just got home and is MISERABLE. I asked what's wrong and he stated his us just in a miserable mood. I asked if something happened at work and he said no, I'm just in a miserable mood. Then got dressed and left to the gym. At midnight! Not like him. Great day turned to tears as I try to sleep...


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14