Interesting about the job sitch being thrown in, and the starting over being unappealing... but man it sounds like some depression, don't you think? I know you wish she would see someone, W said quite a few times that she was "stuck", and hated making decisions because "what if it was the wrong one?" things many times. These are slow cautious ones we have here.
I liked your responses, Jedi...
You know this really is about her. I don't know what else to tell you that you don't already know.
Hang in there, slow moving wheels are still moving.... T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm