Planet I read your sitch. Sorry you find yourself in this sitch. IMO you need to come down hard on this OM. Next time he pulls a stunt like that make sure you come down hard on him and under no circumstances you will tolerate putting your kids' picture without your consent.

"I was not mad at W when he pulled this stunt. I was going show her what this guy did. I stop short because she's a WAW now. Things are different now."

Why? she needs to know how OFF this guy is, WAW or not protect your family first, your kids for that matter. What else do you know about this OM? Get some background check on this guy...get custody of your kids if necessary.

Not sure how it is in Malaysia, but can you consult a L? Affordable?

Anyway that just my opinion...take care planet and good luck to you and your family.

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.