I don't know how you do it, /kneels in your presence.
You sound like your in a pretty good place. Just a question, and don't mean to imply anything, what do you think she'd do if she found out you were dating? You've been at this a long time, but I was just wondering if you've thought about it? Or go out on a Friday night with friends, and hmmm, not make it home till morning? I know that comes off as a manipulation tactic, but I really don't mean it that way. Even if it is a way to "test" the waters.
