as for the other things...nothing has changed. I never criticize her for her weight, because it is truly meaningless to me, and even if it wasn't, that's just plain mean! I can't believe anyone does that, and then wonders why they're not gettin' any?!?!
Seriously, though, it seems to me that it doesn't matter whether your LD spouse is male or female. the reactions are identical. the LD spouse considers themselves the "normal" one, etc, etc.
