He is engaged. And the reality of it is sinking in.
Most of the sitches I've read here have to do with boomerangs, where the H keeps coming back and there is a lot of drama. My ex just wanted to change everything in a heartbeat--wife, job, living arrangements, activities--and pressed really hard to get divorced asap. And then went full speed into the new relationship. This kind of certainty that he projects often makes me doubt my sanity. I KNOW he is in MLC, I know he was able to switch off love like the flick of a button, but still it makes me question if my perception is warped.
Do you know of any sitches out there with vanisher and no children? (there's absolutely no reason for interaction)
