Thanks for dropping by guys:

SF: I hope things will go okay, I am plenty strong, but wise...got a LOT to learn.

Mimi: I agree. Strong women have difficulty with the whole needing thing. This forum is filled with women like us and we have to find a way, I think, of letting someone in without compromising who we are.

Linda: Thanks smile Your info is very valuable and is pretty much what H has said in our conversations. He only needed some worth. I am going to take what I learned from you and slowly put it into practice. I remember H telling me how xgf would marvel at all the kindnesses I took for granted (holding doors open, carrying things etc) because her H never did them. Now I make sure to thank him a lot :))

He had mentioned too, that when a man feels he is not needed, he is just a paycheck, it diminishes who he is. So your ebook has some valid advice smile

Wonka has all the potion she needs, she just hasn''t used it yet wink

Not another place to stay, but I am drawing back until at least September., I will need downtime, and H needs to see his D more. S will be in city so H will be able to see whenever.