SF: I hope things will go okay, I am plenty strong, but wise...got a LOT to learn.
Mimi: I agree. Strong women have difficulty with the whole needing thing. This forum is filled with women like us and we have to find a way, I think, of letting someone in without compromising who we are.
Linda: Thanks Your info is very valuable and is pretty much what H has said in our conversations. He only needed some worth. I am going to take what I learned from you and slowly put it into practice. I remember H telling me how xgf would marvel at all the kindnesses I took for granted (holding doors open, carrying things etc) because her H never did them. Now I make sure to thank him a lot :))
He had mentioned too, that when a man feels he is not needed, he is just a paycheck, it diminishes who he is. So your ebook has some valid advice
Wonka has all the potion she needs, she just hasn''t used it yet
Not another place to stay, but I am drawing back until at least September., I will need downtime, and H needs to see his D more. S will be in city so H will be able to see whenever.