I saw h on Saturday night, then barely any communication Monday and none today.
Last night he said he didn't like some things i said Sunday night which were are you coming over this week at all and i forgot what else. I said I meant nothing bad but I"m glad you told me. He said it made him think he didn't know what he wants. Maybe he doesn't want anyone.
Then I really got to thinking. I know he still has a lot of issues, it is very evident. I told him I can't do this. He had also said he still wanted to be friends with OW. I told him that won't work with me that we needed complete transparency. After that phone call when he said he didn't know what he wants it showed me he jumped again. I just can't handle this anymore. It has gone on too long. He also warned me she may call again. Really? Can't you guys keep me out of it?
Anyway I haven't heard from him since I sent that except to answer questions. And those were one word answers. I think he realizes it too that I'm done.
One thing I noticed. I think a year ago if he would have said I want to work on things but I want to stay friends with OW I probably would have said OK. Now I'm not OK with that because I know I will be alright. I know that I deserve better than that.
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out