The thing is that many of us HD guys are still doing most of the things that we did earlier in our relationships. We are not lazy bums laying around. We watch the kids, clean the house, drive the kids to all there activities, try to date our wives. Yes maybe some things have stopped from when we were dating, but we have also picked up a lot of the chores around the house. We are WORKING our butts off around our wives. But if the wifes LD is caused by us not doing all the things that we did when dating, then the logical answer is that if we start doing those things, then our wives will return to being HD just like they were 15-20 years ago, RIGHT? Funny thing, for the guys that are trying this route, our wives never turn back into HD women? What is the problem here? COuld it be that turning into LD women is BARELY related to weather the guy still does all the dating things. Let's face it, most LD women have no clue as to what really causes it, or how to change it. Yes, US guys can cause some of the problem, but if we fix that problem, they STILL do not recover from LD. WHY NOT?
No I feel for you having a LD husband, they are just as baffling as LD woman, maybe more so, since LD women obviously have a lack of testosterone. LD woman also do like your husband and say that us HD's have the problem. My wife claims that womens desire for sex ALWAYS declines.
