Okay! There you go again. The old bait a switch routine? I know you don't think only WOMEN do that? What happens when you guys get married? All of sudden you don't like to dance anymore, flowers for her stop, you forget those nice manners and you start hating her family! You only do the nice stuff when you are begging to get in her pants the first time. Then later you start harping on her weight, wrinkles and you stop talking and listening. That's why you stuck on stupid men can come home and find her gone and don't know what was happening all along in your own bed. If you want your wife to go from ND to LD to HD stop treating her like you only got time for her when you want something from her. That's the lesson Michelle's teaching. Every day you treat your spouse/mate like it is the last chance you will have to say I love and mean it and it will turn around. At least you are dealing with a female LD. I got to deal with the male version and he claims we don't have a problem. The only one with a problem and who is the problem in my crib is me according to my H.
