Well, just can't seem to do better than 50%, but since there's no hard/fast rules, I still get confused in my responses.
She sent me another long message about feeling like roommates for years, said I probably hate her, or will, (I think she means when I get the paperwork).
I did very well at validating what she feels, but damn it, I could not stop myself mentioning some of the things we have in common (that she's mentioned before). I said that looking back, its easy to see all the bad stuff, and I won't deny they exist.
She keeps trying to tell me she didn't plan to hurt me or scheme take that house, and tells me I should go back to CO where I can be happy, etc. Because she's not being mean, angry or vindictive anymore, it lulled me into saying too much again.
One thing she mentioned is a female friend I met right here on DB forums, who lives in CO. She said she alway knew I had something for her.... I know that was fishing/validating her R with OM, but I just told here we've always just been friends trying to offer advice on relationship issues from the perspective of the opposite sex, which is true. She knows I met her on a forum for discussing relationships.
