One thing I picked up on is that incident was instigated by your W. I don't believe you were at home and she is skyping in the same room as your kids with OM and she did not purposely believe you would find out. I am really bothered by this; to me you just had a normal reaction one would have when put in that situation. My question is why would she put you and your children in that situation in the first place??? i am bothered by why she would do this using her children as pawns to hurt you.