Good for you Glad I'm not naggy, lol. I know you can't help but think about when she's going to contact you next, but don't waste too much of your precious time Have a quick think about it, then move on! If she does contact you, you'll only be thinking what does she think now? What does this mean? Why has she said this? lol. Take the silence as a bonus, you'll only get stressed if she does contact you Remember what I said about changing the house around? Think about how she would react if she suddenly came to the door? Will she be seeing positive changes in you and the house or more of the same? I want my H to see positive changes in me and the house, but I've still got to get started on the house. At the moment when he comes round, I'm embarrassed about the state of the house. He says he doesn't notice, but I bet he does as this was one of his gripes! He did notice that I'd cleared out the conservatory though, which is a positive sign If your W doesn't ever come home, then you still want to be the best that you can be in case you ever meet anyone else or history will repeat itself. I know you probably don't want to think about this, I don't either but you have to be prepared just in case
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Glad I'm not naggy, lol. I know you can't help but think about when she's going to contact you next, but don't waste too much of your precious time 
