"Been busy, busy. S1 bounced in from fire, then deployed out again to Oregon, so had lots to wash, clean, re-stock... Got out for a great hike Sunday, got a wee bit of trail running in, rock scrambles in at about 8000 ft. Been working nights covering for the night guy, and we are expanding our business, so lots of project work to do. So, very distracted... W has been consistently nice, a bit less withdrawn, but working through stuff based on the books lying around."
I'm glad your W seems less withdrawn, T, that is GOOD news! And glad to hear you were able to run on the trail and rock climb too, are you feeling better? Your son must be in heaven, deployed again!
I'm trying to follow your very excellent advice not to take everything my H says and does personally. It's hard though, a lot of it seems personal! He's a tad cranky because his visa has not been approved yet, and the scam company he used advertised 7 to 15 days. Ah well, there's still a month before he leaves. And I'm sure RT will come up with some alternate scam plan to this one she cooked up.
I read in this self-help e-book I bought that women should assume that 99% of the things their Hs say and do have absolutely nothing to do with them. My H has even told me that I think about RT more often than he does
As a man, do you think this is true? Women are the total opposite, we think about relationships a lot, even women who are not Standers.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
