There are so many possible causes for LD that I am not sure that determining the cause may be frutiless in my case. My wife is ND. Possible causes:
1) Not enough quality time together. 2) Rotten childhood. 3) Hypoactive Thyroid. 4) Bad Body Image (hers not mine!). 5) Finances. 6) She has a best friend that is her former LOVER from 18 years ago, and he has the biggest you know what that my wife has ever seen. But there is no PA taking place. 7) She is premenopausal. 8) Her natuaral testosterone has probably really dropped off. 9) After birthing 3 children, her desire level noticeable dropped after EACH child and never returned. 10) She is not attracted to me anymore. We have nothing in common. Her words exactly. 11) She has absolutely no interest in sex, but will do it to fill my needs, her words exactly.
Where to start? And I think that many of my issues are COMMON for guys that are HD married to ND woman. Everytime I address one problem, she magically develops another reason to not want sex. Let's face it, many women just LOSE their desire, and they really don't know why.
