When I was having the big talk with my W, I mentioned the 5 love Languages, and told her that I could not, in my personal moral code, go outside our marriage in order to feel loved by physical touch. In a way, I was setting her up to hear my later comments of, "I can't stand this feeling any more. Either you love me, and will show me that you do in the way I want you to, or I will find love elsewhere." I don't know if I'll ever get to that point, but it's possible. I didn't know if I'd ever get up the nerve to give her the book, and I did.
The weird thing is, I don't want to get involved with someone other than my wife. Heck, even when I take matters "into my own hand" so to speak, the woman I fantasize about is her. Well, it looks like her, but doesn't necessarily act like her
I'm a decent looking guy, I work hard, know how to have fun, am a good and loving parent, a great cook, I clean up the house and do laundry...what's not to love? Okay, I have my faults, but where are you going to find a guy that's as complete a package as me? Play me or trade me, baby.
