My mother is dying. XW wants to be my friend.

[tadpole1025]

Perhaps stop taking her calls altogether, after all what information is she telling you that you don't already know about your mother- she IS your mother who you are spending time with and supporting, right?

Right. It was info that she heard from my brother's XW who heard it from my other brother's XW. Funny huh? Everything was blown way out of context. I saw mom this morning and she is doing fine. It is funny in a way that she has to keep sticking her nose into my family when I was threatened with bodily harm if I ever contacted her family.

Actually, what type of "spew" was she telling you?

1 - She was unhappy for so many years and hoped for a miracle.

2 - I betrayed her "over and over and over."

3 - Her internet fling had nothing to do with her leaving.

4 - She then accused me of cheating on her. Said that she heard it from a former co-worker. When I asked her to tell me who it was, she ignored the question....twice. It is because it is a lie. I've NEVER cheated on her. As a matter of fact, up until I was 43, she was the only woman I had ever slept with. She couldn't name an informant because there is nothing to tell and she knows it.

She still seems like she is trying to be nice (who knows why), but also seems so angry.

I still don't understand why she would want to be a friend to someone (me) who is supposedly so terrible.