[quote=Mimi30] Same here! Sometimes happiness comes with work and that is the best kind, IMO! My H needs to understand this concept!
Yes, many people in the world in general need to understand this as well.
In regards to marriage, I like this quote "Don't give up. You'll gain strength when you're going through trials. The strongest marriages come from the greatest pains."
Because of quotes like that, I sometimes like to float off to dream land and believe that all the pain I am going through now, will be worth it, because in the end H will wake up, come back and we will be stronger b/c of it.
Then I wake up and realize yes I have gained strength through this, but it may not be for my marriage, it may simply just be for me.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
