DB seemingly backfired w/ my H???

[Mimi00]

Just dropping by to check in on your mimi and on your stitch

Thanks for checking on me DigDeeper

I think you're in a good place Mimi, with a good understanding of your emotions.

I sometimes fall into the the worry about "wasting" time but I realize that in the time since the bombdrop I have done so much emotional growth and it wouldn't have happened any other way. This is my life unfolding in front of me, smooth patches, bumpy patches, time spent in the ditches. I've just tried to keep moving forward.

This is true for me as well. Yet with no H i feel like, where am I going to apply all the knowledge I've gained lol But yes I am grateful regardless!

I can relate to this. It was getting to a place where I didn't want to be anymore. I am thankful that people were in places that were able to help me on my journey.

Mimi, you will find these people, too.

I am rooting for you.

To use a worn out phrase... "you go, girl!"

Thanks MrCAS!

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I sent H and email last night, when we initially talked about my moving a few weeks ago by phone, he told em to keep him updated. So the email was the update.

I let him know (what he already saw online) that I went for a visit to the area I'm moving and that I didn't necessarily feel like it was where I need to be long term, but I will be heading there at least until the end of the year. Also I told him, I can't predict the future, so this isn't definite, but I hope to be self sufficient by the end of the year as well (if I can do so before that, that will be wonderful!).

He told me to make a list of things I needed for my move when we talks. So in the email I also gave him a run down of things I will be spending our money in the next week or so before I go/when I get there (basically needs for my dog, yearly shots, etc...and my own physical & tests I will need for my job, hotel stay etc...etc...). I told him I'd try to pick up extra hours at work to help cover some of the stuff as well.

I let him know that I'll send him lists like this monthly (I will probably cut my communication with him down to this only, as I see no other reason to talk to him.... is this a good idea???)

I told him not to fret the future lists will be much shorter lol and if he has any questions or concerns to let me know.

He didn't respond. But he did "like" one of my photos on instagram later that night....??? lol

Don't know what to make of his silence. But whatever.