I our wives love us but do not want to have sex with us, then why would it be wrong to have sex with OTHER people. Our wives would scream bloody murder, but WHY? How many times have I been told that my happiness is MY problem to deal with. So Hairdog, why should we not tell our wives up front that we are going to Take Care of our own needs by having sex with other people. That way the pressure will be taken off of our wives.
It may sound ridiculous, but touching, kissing, affection, sexuality, are the things that make us HD guys happy, so how else can we meet our own needs unless we have sex outside the marriage? Should all LD spouses not WANT their spouses to seek sexuality elswhere?
You know, these comments sound really stupid, but the longer we live with ND spouses, do they not start sounding a little more sane everyday?
Good Luck, Hairdog. Try to find a few more stones to turn over. Maybe you'll find something under there.
