I agree. I have been stepping back slowly. Off fb, not contacting with chit chat but being funny and upbeat when he does answer back etc.
I've made a coaching session because I am a little stuck. I know you advocate more space and I see the validity.
But h has also felt I never needed him for anything. So I have to find that line where I validate his decisions etc but also give him his space. Where he knows he can find me but also the time he needs.
Pretty difficult right now. Spent my marriage pulling away and to do it now would be a grave. Error. But I have to let him find him first I guess.
