Thanks Corri, CeMar, and annette for your posts. I thought your idea, Corri, was good (to send her an email), yet I also want to give her some room. So I didn't send it.
What I really feel like is telling her that I will never reach the point where sex is not important to me, that the chemical balance of hormones within me do not allow this to occur. And then, ask her if she minds if I take a lover, so that I will stop bugging her.
I know, that is no solution to the problem. Yet, I am starting to feel as depressed and hopeless as CeMar. To cross over to another message board topic, I feel like doing the Last Resort Technique.... I have to give her time...MORE TIME...I feel I have already given her years to deal with this.
